Rodeo Girl Jayden Gould

Jayden Gould has always loved horses. From childhood to today, she has loved all things rodeo.

Her father, Bret Gould, is a professional in the rodeo business, and under his influence and her uncle’s influence, she and her cousin joined the ranks.

“It feels good to be in the sport of rodeo and to have some help,” Jayden said. “Most kids don’t have the help behind them. It puts a lot of pressure on you, too.”

Rodeo Girl Jayden Gould

She said people will say, ‘Oh, that’s Bret’s daughter!’ and then she’ll have to show out.

However, a childhood accident halted her passion.

“I got in a horse accident when I was 8, and then I quit until I was in fifth grade,” Jayden said.

But her inability to master another sport eventually outweighed her fear.

“I’ve always liked horses, but I was scared of them,” she said. “I had to slowly work through the fear.”

Rodeo Girl Jayden Gould

To help her overcome her fear, Jayden’s grandmother gave her a horse.

“His name was Spider,” she said. “I rope on him today. We learned together — I learned how to rope on him, and I learned how to ride on him, pretty much.”

For a year, she would just brush Spider.

“I didn’t want to get on him, so I just brushed him,” she said. “And we built a bond.”

Rodeo Girl Jayden Gould

Her grandmother was the key ingredient to helping her conquer her fears. She would take her on small rides and encourage her until she built up courage of her own.

Jayden’s interest soared from there. She started competing in the eighth grade — everything from barrels to team roping and breakaway, some of which are traditionally male-dominated categories.

“My whole family ropes; I just like it better,” she said. “When you go places, you have to find your own runs, and most guys will look at you and be like, ‘It’s a girl; she can’t rope,’ and then they’ll watch me rope.”

She said there are not many women in these categories of rodeo, but they do exist. History was made at The American Rodeo, a big rodeo at AT&T Stadium in Arlington, the home of the Dallas Cowboys, when a girls breakaway category was added with a prize of $100,000 in 2018.

“It’s totally like the work world,” Jayden’s mom, Courtney Gould, said. “They discount women in it and assume they’re not going to be as good or can’t compete with the boys, for sure.”

Jayden said she had to build a reputation of success for herself to be taken seriously as a competitor in those male-dominated categories. When she succeeds in those categories, she gets more attention because she is a woman.

“I like winning,” she said. “I like working with my horses and the friendships I’ve gained through rodeo.”

She has traveled the United States while competing, making it to nationals in Gillette, Wyoming, her freshman year of high school.

Right now, she is in her senior year. She home schools through a cooperative 9 a.m.-noon Monday through Thursday that makes it easier for her to travel and make up her work.

Although rodeo is her passion, Jayden enjoys many things like dressing up with her friends and going to prom. She even attends a rodeo prom.

“All the girls are usually in rodeo attire, and we look just ratchet,” she said. “Then we get ready, and we look a lot better than we did.”

She said it’s good to see familiar faces from different competitions.

“Knowing people who are better than me pushes me to be better,” she said. “I like that.”